Falling in love after a month of dating
You just have to let go of the current one to see them.But here’s the biggest reason to move on, and the one most of us are least aware of: right now there’s something better that might be available to you that will not be able to enter your life because you look “content.” You already have someone at your side, so there’s a “No Vacancy” sign above your head diverting anyone who might be interested in you. You think the only option you have is the one in your hands, but it’s not. What would happen if those other options knew you were single?And on top of that, all guys are different, all relationships are different, and what a guy wants is constantly changing as he grows.
It could mean that you challenge him constantly to do better, to be a better person. It's a really selfish, but really nice feeling, to know that you're instrumental in some way.
So just like the idea that he wants to feel supported by you, he might also want to feel like he's the provider. People want to know why men fall in love, but I think what's really being asked here is what makes them in love.
(At least while you’re just dating—being married and raising kids together, yes, you need to stick around and give it every shot you can unless you’ve suffered too much to stomach any more.) You can exit if you simply feel, “Hey, I like you. And then finally admitted at age 49 what they probably should have admitted at age 24 when they’d only been dating 3 yrs.♦◊♦Guy, girl, gay, straight, whatever: If it’s love you want, give your venture enough time to have a chance to flourish, but just as a venture capitalist doesn’t make unconditionally investments forever, pull your money at some point if you’re not seeing enough return on your contributions.
Because there’s plenty of other things out there to invest your time in.
Be someone who brings as much to the table as you expect from them.